cb1100fer

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 1:37 pm

For those that have been around this site for a while knows that John (cb1100fer) has been a huge contributor and friend of this board. You may have noticed that he hasn't participated that much in recent past, and is because he has been at his wife's side in sickness. It is with regret to inform you all that John's wife lost her battle with cancer and has past on. Please send along your well wishes to him and show some support through these tough times. John himself has been fighting the battle for 8 years now .... kick this shit in the ass John.

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 2:17 pm

So sorry to hear that.

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 2:23 pm

Very sad to hear,

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 2:24 pm

Prayers sent. Sorry for your loss.

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 2:29 pm

I'm sorry to hear your wife died.
I can't imagine how much that must hurt.

Hawk Joined: Jan 10, 2012 Posts: 452 Location: Chicago

I'm sure we all can pass along our most sincerest condolences to John as he makes his way thru and past this terrible loss.....

John we are here for you at any level needed.....

Lost my Dad last year to a short battle with cancer and I am a survivor since 05'.

E

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 3:17 pm

Bad things like this should not happen to such a good person like John.
So sorry for your loss.

CB1100F Joined: Jun 18, 2006 Posts: 2511 Location: UK

Sorry for your loss John

Keith

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 5:26 pm

Lost my wife in 2000, I am really sorry to hear this. My condolences to you and yours.
TWEEKER

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 5:40 pm

I hate news like this. I don't know John but will have him in my prayers. So sorry for your loss. Cancer sucks!!!!!!! Lost my mom way too early 2 years ago to the nasty beast.

Please find some peace John and know that your wife doesn't hurt anymore.

Peace, Jim

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 8:20 pm

Thoughts are with you John… deepest condolences for your loss

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 8:58 pm

John, I'm so sorry to hear that Lori has passed. I hope you and the children can find your way through this hardship. If I can help you in anyway don't hesitate to call.

Alan.

Posted: Fri Jul 24, 2015 10:10 pm

My thoughts and prayers are with you and you family John. Remember to take care of yourself too.

Dave

Posted: Sat Jul 25, 2015 12:39 am

Very sorry for your loss

Posted: Sat Jul 25, 2015 2:28 am

So sorry to hear this. My condolences John.

Grumpy

Posted: Sat Jul 25, 2015 12:27 pm

John,

You really came through for me with some 11F p[arts and I am very grateful.

All my dealings with you were A++ and you are a heck of a person.

Really SORRY to hear of your loss and wish you strength in this most difficult time.

My sincere condolences

Ricardo

Posted: Sat Jul 25, 2015 1:46 pm

John,

My deepest condolences.

Twinstar Joined: Oct 02, 2008 Posts: 90 Location: Ireland

May she rest in peace.

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2015 8:29 am

So sorry John. Be strong.

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2015 9:40 am

Sorry to hear this John, never easy.

Jim I can't believe that is 2 years ago

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2015 1:45 pm

Thank you all from the bottom of my heart.
I can't begin to describe how difficult it's been to watch my wife of almost 29 years just wither away to nothing before my eyes and the helpless feelings that come with it. She was a fighter until the end and never complained but was completely selfless until her last breath. Two days before her passing she was too weak to speak and only said a dozen words all day. At one point she opens her eyes to me and says "Did you take your pills?" Always caring for everyone around her, that's the type of person she was. Thousands attended her visitation and funeral as she touched the lives of so many in her career. During the funeral procession she wanted to pass by her school on the way to the church. To my surprise there were hundreds lining the street in front of the school and as we passed dozens of balloons were released into the air to show tribute to her. Chills ran through me and I was in tears once again. She was loved by so many and will be missed by everyone......including myself most of all.
I know she's in a better place and her suffering is finally over and it's the only consolation I have. I need to keep up the good fight myself for my boys as they need me now more than ever. I was told I'd be dead a long time ago from this disease but I refuse to listen. I'm a stubborn SOB and always will be.
Thank you again.
John

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2015 2:48 pm

I'm so sorry John. Sincerest regards, Crying or Very sad

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2015 2:50 pm

It chocked me up to read your post John,, Im so sorry for your loss and admire your courage to fight on. Prayers are with you my friend

Posted: Sun Jul 26, 2015 3:14 pm

cbxdog wrote:

It chocked me up to read your post John.

The same goes for me. It must have taken your breath away when the balloons were released and I can imagine the emotions that must have overwhelmed you at that moment. Your wife sounded like a true fighter and caretaker right up to the end. She's no longer suffering and is looking down on you with caring eyes. John, my heart goes out to you and your family in this difficult time. You know you have plenty of friends that are here for you, so don't be a stranger. Time will help ease your sadness.

Tom

Twinstar Joined: Jul 14, 2003 Posts: 223 Location: Montana

Sorry about the loss sir. We've never met but cancer has taken many in my family, including my mother, and I can relate somewhat to what you're going through. God bless you and your families. Be praying for you.

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2015 12:02 am

John, sorry for your loss. I can't imagine what you've gone and are going through but I've been thinking about you. Be strong and take care. Eric.

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2015 1:24 am

John, sorry for your loss. Keep up the fight for those boys, your future.

Posted: Mon Jul 27, 2015 2:09 am

cbxdog wrote:

It chocked me up to read your post John,, Im so sorry for your loss and admire your courage to fight on. Prayers are with you my friend

+1

We have never met as I am perhaps too new here but it my honor to read your post. I wish you all the best going forward.

Posted: Tue Jul 28, 2015 2:00 am

John, I am so sorry to hear about your loss. I was shocked when you sent me the PM telling me what you are going thru at the time. You know how to contact me if there is anything I can do.

Twinstar Joined: Jul 06, 2010 Posts: 129 Location: Toronto

John,

I'm so sorry to hear. I hope you get little reminders and signs that she is still with you. When my dad past I had many.

Thank you for sharing your story about the procession what a touching tribute - you have me choked up as well...and have reminded us all of what's most important.

I wish you and your family all the best in this difficult time.